"Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."
Loads of short messages do the round of mobile phones through the year, highlighting some aspect of friendship or the other. Some are nice, some are flattering, some naïve, some shallow.

They all seem to point out that friendship is the best thing going for the insecure human psyche. What they fall short of explaining is how we know who is my friend, who it is that I can link these lovely slogans with and who it is that makes the bar as 'best friend'.
Although not fully understood, researchers have found out that friends can boost the immunity system.

Good friends can make you feel relaxed, can comfort you and be there for you when you need somebody to talk to, even cry and laugh with! They can be a strong support network that could keep you motivated and boost your self-esteem through the hardest of times.

Every person needs a friend-do you know how to be one? Here are five easy ways to become a good friend: Spend time together. You're in Atlanta, she's in Tokyo. How on earth can you possibly spend time together?

Sometimes spending time with a her doesn't mean that you have to be physically present.true friend will go out of his or her way to give to great advice. In society, our friends or those close to us, play a major role in helping us make decisions.

The will give their input but will allow you the chance to make your own mind. After this, they will still respect you for who you are. Good friends are those who are able to read your mind and moods. Theirs is usually a peace mission that is guided by affection and concern.

There are so many other qualities to look out for. Apart from loving, they should be loyal and dedicated to being your friend. Often times, many fall short of the above qualities and as a result, many friends fall out. Do not forget to have room for forgiveness in your relationship. Many times, friends are at fault but this does not mean that they are bad.

Family remains a priority for all individuals, but for each person there is no much meaning in life without having a confidante. Friendship does not relate to age and gender. It is about giving and sharing.

Joy needs to be communicated and also it is imperative to let your friend know about the ebbing concepts in your life. Friendship with your spouse is at a deeper level and it is a transparent relationship.

Hanging out with a group of friends especially when one is in the youth is common. It is important to disassociate oneself from a wrong influence.

Friendship is all about quality and not quantity. Valuing friendship also means accepting a friend's demerits. Hurts in friendship deepen into wounds and a good friend can be lost forever. Taking the first move to apologize is a form of valuing friendship and expressing your love.


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